When you're a kid you have these notions about how things are going to be.... You get a little older and you pull back on some of that. I think you wind up just tryin to minimize the pain.

Cormac McCarthy
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We all have to grow up at some point. However, many adults don’t take the time to prepare themselves for this transition. Instead, they want to avoid dealing with the pain that comes with the process of growing up. The problem is that avoiding pain can lead to a life that isn’t all that happy.

The truth is that the only way to truly enjoy life is to accept it for what it is, not what you thought it would be when you were younger. We all have to grow up at some point, but there are ways to make the process easier on yourself.

Source: Cities Of The Plain

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